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    Ordering ultram online without prescription, Two weeks ago, I attended a conference for church leaders that featured Shane Hipps as the keynote speaker. When someone in the audience asked Shane about preaching, he gave an interesting answer. He said (and I’m paraphrasing here) one of the greatest things a preacher has to offer his audience is himself -- body, presence, actions, being. One of the best ways to become a better preacher, he concluded, was to become a better being -- to become more mature in the faith, cheap phentermine online cheap, more spiritually formed, more like Christ. Thus, Shane believes personal spiritual development/formation is vitally important for church leaders. And even though I’m not a preacher, that idea stuck with me, ordering ultram online without prescription.

    I began thinking about my roles as a husband and father. Shane’s idea suggested that I could become a better husband and father by becoming a better being -- more mature in the faith, more spiritually formed, more like Christ. Discount propecia, I’d never thought about it that way. If you’d asked me before, I would’ve said the best way to become a better husband and father would be to read books or attend workshops on marriage and parenting. Ordering ultram online without prescription, The more I think about it, the more I think Shane is right. I can become a better husband to my wife and a better father to my daughter by growing spiritually. If the best thing I can offer them is me -- body, presence, actions, being -- then it makes sense that I work on me (for my sake and theirs).

    To be honest, I haven’t figured out exactly what this looks like for me yet, cheap tramadol overnight delivery. However, I think these are some key components:


    • spiritual disciplines

    • community

    • intentionality

    • time


    Those are just a few. What am I missing.

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    Synthroid online, I recently read this article, A heartbreaking request: Take My Child, from the Miami Herald, and I was struck once again by the extent of the devastation and hopelessness that pervades Haiti.

    The realities this article reveals are shocking.  Scores of Haitian parents are convinced that there is no hope, for them or their children.  As a father, it is difficult, almost impossible, to imagine their situation.  These parents are willing to go to extreme measures to protect and provide for their children, where to buy cheap alprazolam, yet the only hope they see for their children is to say ‘goodbye’ and have someone take them to the U.S.

    We who live here in the land of plenty have the opportunity and the privilege to take help and hope to Haiti.  While adoption has been and will be the answer for hundreds of Haitian children, what many thousands of Haitian children need most is for us to not be stingy with our hope, but instead take it to Haiti.  In response to the father’s plea “take my child, Cheap flagyl, ” shouldn’t we be ready with hands extended and hearts committed to reply instead, “take hold of this hope” — a hope that is “good news” both here and now and for eternity.

    I, my family and my church are all prayerfully considering how we can best ‘take hope to Haiti.’  Even as the stories from Haiti cease and the images fade, I pray that we would not forget or fail to respond.  If you are interested in how your family or your church can help ‘take hope to Haiti,’ take a few minutes to learn more about the efforts of  the Haiti Orphan Relief Team, cheap cialis online.

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    Two stick figures pointing to different sections on Maslow's hierarchy of Needs. One guy is adopting to get self-actualization and esteem and the other guys to provide physiological and safety needs.

    My wife and I adopted because we wanted another child. We suffered two miscarriages and were too afraid to keep trying at the risk of losing more babies. The prospect of adopting was a big pill for us to swallow, but, in our case, it went down smoothly enough. All of the adoptive families we knew had, to our knowledge, adopted their kids for the same reason – they wanted to be parents (or wanted to be parents again).

    It wasn’t until we started diving deeper into "the world of adoption" that we began meeting people who were more mission-minded in their motivation to adopt, xanax no prescription. These were wonderful, selfless people who were great parents, Buy generic accutane, but their noble motivation made me feel small and I started taking a defensive stance. It wasn’t just adoptive parents either. I clearly remember sharing a meal with some friends who were praising us for adopting because we wanted to, not because we had to (they assumed this since we already had one biological child). I didn’t let on, but I was offended. Xanax no prescription, I felt it was better to need to adopt because raising a child in a home that has rescued him but doesn’t cherish him is tragedy.

    Recently, I’ve become more of a centrist, if you will, in terms of my motivation to adopt (or foster). I’ve adopted a bit more of a missional attitude because I know kids in foster care. I have heard first-hand accounts of children in poverty who need forever families. I see these kids and I hear their stories and my heart physically hurts, phentermine cheap. The burden is real, xanax no prescription.

    I have to stop and consider, "What would I save this child to. Do I want to be a dad again. Do I want to be a foster parent again?" For me, there is no longer a rigid dichotomy of needing to adopt versus wanting to adopt. My motivation is not either one of duty or one of desire. Xanax no prescription, I look at my girls – all of them, adopted and otherwise – and I realize the duty has become my desire. There is fullness in all of it.

    Most parents make the choice to adopt due to infertility or miscarriage. We certainly did. And yet in our desire to have our children fit right into our family, we must not ignore where our children have come from. It is part of their story, xanax no prescription. Order lorazepam online without prescription, At the same time, an increasing number of parents are adopting because of the distress of orphans worldwide. A burden for these children will surely play a role in our next adoption (no plans yet). Where they have come from is only part of their story. Their past should not define them nor make them the ‘family project.’  These children want and need to fully belong.  They need so much more than our hospitality.

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